Here are the Top 5 things that you need to know about women and sex from some of Mens Health Magazine's favorite Sex Experts.
WOMEN + ORGASM = NOISE?
"Men: 'Is it possible for a woman to not make a lot of noise while having an orgasm?'"A lot of people especially guys doesn't talk about it publicly. However, a lot of people ask a lot of questions like this online.
According to Sex Researcher and Educator at the University Of Indiana, Debby Herbenick, M.P.H., Ph.D.,
"Absolutely. If you want her to speak up, make a few noises of your own so she feels she's in good company. Wetness, muscular contractions, and toe curling are common signs of women's orgasms; arias are optional."
SEX + PUBLIC PLACE = JAIL?
"Men: 'How can my girl and I get the thrill of public sex without being arrested?'"Here's some tips in exoeriencing public sex without getting behind the bars.
- You can have it in your backyard.
- Hiking in the woods
- Renting a public motel or hotel room with thin drapes
- Video Tape yourselves
"Putting yourselves on camera can give both of you the same highs -- the heavy breathing, the increased heart rate -- that we associate with the fear of being caught."You can choose which options you want. It will spike your risk sensors and increase your body's awareness of all sensations.
WOMEN + SEX = MULTIPLE ORGASMS?
"Men: 'How come women can have multiple orgasms, but men can't?'"It is still quite unclear why women can have multiple orgasms. It appears to be influenced by hormones, neurotransmitters, and nerve excitability, and is seemingly absent among most women. A research suggests that about 14 percent and 40 percent of women have experienced them.
Men have a refractory period. Refractory Period is the reloading phase during which men are unlikely to become erect or ejaculate again. The closest thing to multiple orgasms that men can do is learning to experience the sensation of orgasm repeatedly without ejaculating. This is called "Tantric Sex".
WOMEN + CLITORIS = SEX's GOLD MINE or LAND MINE?
"Men: 'My girlfriend says her clitoris is too sensitive for multiple orgasms. How can I keep her going?'"Clitoris have 8,000 nerve endings. It is a gold mine when fresh but when overstimulated it can be a landmine. It's like finding a box, you don't know whether it is truly a treasure box with lots of loots inside or you found Pandora's Box instead. The thing here is how you get it so you can get the thing you wanted.
Maintaining her arousal between orgasms is the key. Focus more on womens sensitive parts like breast, thighs, neck or lips.
HOME + SEX = MIND-BLOWING EXPERIENCE?
"Men: 'Why is vacation sex always better? How can I have incredible, mind-blowing sex at home?'"Workday stress interferes with natural lubrication of the vagina for women and stimulates your sympathetic nervous system, meaning you're closer to ejaculation from the get-go for men. You have to cleanse your mental palate.
More-relaxed sex means you'll have better gun control and she'll be more likely to reach orgasm. Try hitting the gym, going for a jog, or listening to a CD. Then stretch out foreplay.